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Russian women and Age
This chapter is closely connected with age difference issue.
The phenomenon of ageing and attitude to it is different here.
Russians sort of grow up faster then Europeans and Americans.
That has more to do with self- perception then looks. We get married,
have children, and start thinking about career, own business, having
property and settling down in life in general earlier then our coevals
in other countries.
Even though it is changing at the moment, most people are married and
have kids by the age of 30. However they can continue living with their
parents. But that is influenced by the factor of poor economy in most
FSU countries.
Russian women start thinking about marriage and having their own family
much earlier and appear to be more mature in many life situations than the
girl of the same age in your country.
So do not be surprised if a 23-year-old girl tells you things you would
expect to hear from a lady that is 10 years older.
Age Difference
Another thing that causes a lot of arguments is the problem of age difference.
We can't say that all the Russian women and girls share the same attitude to the
difference in age with their future husband. But there are a lot of young beauties,
trying to find a tower of strength, a husband, able to provide a good life level
and education to future children and who could be a bread-winner in case of need
(not all the women can find an appropriate job without language knowledge and
without experience of living in a foreign country). A lot of men "from West" that
are above 40 match this ideal perfectly. Nevertheless it's not advisable to waste
your time on correspondence with girls who are 20+ years younger than you. Most
likely she will be interested in the beginning but than she will probably realize
that you have too little in common. But if you're ready to keep on trying than
you've got a chance to make things work. But isn't it better to find a woman who
is a bit older but looks no worse than a young student but who's got life experience
and rich inner world and who will sincerely cherish your relationships.
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